internal conflict

i have a friend that annoys me somuch and she exgrates a lot so i never know what is really going on . so i have to sit and sort out what she really means after she says it so yeah . then she is kinda of hypocritical so she really doesnt make any sense sometimes. but she come tell me this story about somethng someone said or did or something i said or whatever and like make it sound like a big deal so i'll like worry about it until i really find out what happend it's horrible really and i cant say anything beacuse the cycle will just repeat its self it is a fichouse cycle